“Disturbingly,
out of all my artworks, this is the one most suppressed by Twitter.
They really hate it. Likes and retweets are regularly removed. It can't
seem to get over 10,000 likes - even though it's had more than 1.5
million impressions. The fact that they clearly view it as dangerous
disturbs me every day. But it also gives me hope. It reminds us that we
have something they not only lack, but which they fear. Genuine,
meaningful love. Something worth fighting for. Right to the very end."
"This
black and white ink drawing was done some time in 2017 I think. I just
doodled it on a postcard to raise money for an epilepsy charity.
Someone, somewhere owns the original. I just liked the idea of this
elderly couple. Perhaps this is where they first met. Perhaps it's where
he asked her to marry him. That might be their house down in the
valley, where they've raised a family. At the time, I was living in a
town in Hampshire but I was about to move back to the Somerset
countryside where I grew up. I was probably thinking about returning
home and staying there. I nearly put their intials carved into the tree
trunk but decided it would be a bit much. You can imagine them on the
other side.
When all of this nonsense reached a certain point:
When stories were coming out of married couples being kept apart,
parents being forced to die without their children by their side,
grandparents kept from their grandchildren for months on end as the
children were told they might kill them if they saw them - I just
couldn't believe that people were agreeing to it. This image came back
to me and I decided to recreate it in colour. I thought it conveyed the
power and significance of life-long love quite well. But also, had a
sense of freedom and embracing life with all it could throw at us.
Finally,
I thought perhaps the tree could remind people of the fleeting nature
of our lives. It's probably been there since before these two were born.
And it will be there after they've gone. Our lives are short and we
have to live them. Not just survive and exist. This, of course, was when
I was still very much in 'optimistic cuddly Bob' mode. I still felt
that it could all be stopped if enough people remembered some vital
truths about the human experience.
Once it was finished I
tweeted it and wrote, 'Never surrender your right to be with the people
you love.' I hesitated because I felt that it was a statement of the
obvious. But that was the whole point. People had forgotten the obvious.
I realised that this had, in the space of a few months, gone from being
a universal moral truth to a highly controversial statement. It
certainly struck a chord with people. It's the most popular image I have
ever produced.
As I expected, it angered a lot of idiots on the
other side. "Unless being with the people you love might kill them."
They replied, clearly feeling like they had absolutely destroyed me.
This total abandoning of logic and ethics really astonished me. I
realised that these people could not see the difference between
deciding, as a family, not to see each other because you are genuinely
scared of a novel cold virus, and being ordered to stay apart by the
government. What's more, they clearly believed that this was the first
time in human history when seeing your loved ones put them at some risk
of a potentially fatal viral infection. What world did they think they
had been living in?
My message was deliberately absolutist and
unconditional because that is how I have felt about all of this from the
beginning. No circumstances, no level of threat, no risk of death can
ever justify somebody in authority banning families from being with each
other. Once we cross that line, all sorts of unethical misery ensues.
As it has. The Christian sacrament of marriage states, "Those whom God
hath joined together, let no man put asunder!" - there is no small print
that reads, "Unless there's a nasty bug going round, in which case
forget it."
Once I could see the impact of my words combined
with the image, I added the words to the original artwork (now sold). I
received many lovely messages from people all over the world, who told
me this piece had given them hope. Or brought them back from the brink
of despair. Some people even said it had convinced them to see their
loved ones again. Or to never stop seeing them again. I still find it
comforting, even now. I think it has a power bestowed on it from
somewhere outside of myself. Either by the circumstances in which it was
created or by something beyond comprehension."
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